Sat. Sep 30th, 2023
dating13 Ghosting is abusive 2 min read

WE NEED TO MATURE OUR HURTFUL, DISCONNECTED BEHAVIORS AS INDIVIDUALS FIRST AND THEN COLLECTIVELY.

Avoidance does not make better human beings, it creates cowardly and emotionally inept humans who cannot confront problems, issues, crises, or the ramifications of their own actions. It creates victimizers who don’t even understand the full scope of their recklessness, and a trail of hurt hearts in their wake.…

... Read More

How many years did I have to suffer through the agony of wanting to be in love and be in purpose? Because to be human means you are always divided. You are always needed in two worlds. You will always want to be in love because in love is where you touch your soul, the deepest core of surrender that you can, it’s where you get fucked the way you want, it’s where he and I meet and know God together. It’s where everything aches fervently and deeply and it’s ok. Yearning as breathing, as eating, as sleeping. …

... Read More

Ok, the title is pretty self-explanatory… and it’s a pressing issue for guys and their abilities to attract a girlfriend. So, once more for the record:

When it comes to attracting women and getting a girlfriend… LOOKS DON’T MATTER.

If you haven’t heard this before, then this will be a revelation for you (as it was for me when I first heard it)… and if you HAVE heard it before, well now I’ll just explain to you exactly WHY such is the case… and HOW to use it to your advantage.…

... Read More

I’m sitting here at work, busy txting a few girls and I’ve just noticed a very important tactic that I use to build rapport and attraction with women. This “tactic” really has to do with making a conversation “fun and exciting”… INSTANTLY.

The reason this is important, and I’ve repeated this many times over, is because at the end of the day, women are most importantly looking for emotional stimulation and if you give it to her, she will love you for it. Now, the easiest and quickest way to provide emotional stimulation is to turn a conversation “fun …

... Read More

Working alone at the bar in order to approach groups of women can be an ordeal if you have no one helping you… this is where the “wingman” comes in.

The true purpose of having a wingman is so that once you have engaged a group of two women, you wingman can “occupy” one of the friends while you isolate the other friend for a more intimate conversation. When you are opening a group of two women alone… if can be difficult to isolate just the one girl while the other girl hangs out by herself (but there are tactics …

... Read More