If you have ever tried a new sport or activity, you know you it takes some time before you get it down.
It’s not like you can just pick up a golf club and then you become the next Tiger Woods.
Well, that is exactly what Marcus in Canada expected. He sent me an email griping and whining because he sent out 1 letter to 1 woman and she didn’t respond.
Give me a break already.
Imagine if you were looking for a new job and you sent one resume to one company and then sat at home awaiting a job.
You might get pretty hungry with that approach as seen in this adultfrienedfinder app review. Matter of fact, posting your resume on a site like Monster.com is akin to posting a profile on a dating site.
There are tons of other applicants looking for the same job you want and they have most of the same skills you do, so how do you get the position?
Isn’t it about setting yourself apart from the rest of the applicants?
Don’t you also have to get yourself in front of as many prospective employers as possible?
Well, it is the same thing with online dating.
Not only that, but not every employer is looking for what you have to offer, just like not every woman wants what you have to offer.
It doesn’t make sense to go to a job interview for an accountant position if you aren’t an accountant.
Just like it doesn’t make sense to meet a woman who is looking for a man who wants kids and who is an avid golfer if you definitely don’t want kids and hate golf.
Your profile and your personal website are supposed to be used to sift and sort to find the right possible matches, so you don’t have to waste time meeting women who don’t qualify.
So how do you set yourself apart from all the other prospective men out there?
Well, having a personal website is a great way to do that, but what else?
Unique username. This is why I have a whole manual of usernames.
Then let’s see…a great headline.
Which again, is why I have a manual dedicated to headlines.
Then a creative ad. I have an entire manual of creative winning
ads I have tested over and over again, which worked like gangbusters.
You also want to gain trust from the get go. So what you say in your profile needs to be backed up with what you do and say.
A great trick for this is to use photos that display what you state in your profile such as…
Well, if you say you run marathons, then a picture of you crossing the finish line with a great big smile on your face would definitely show her you really are a marathoner.
Or something as simple as…you claim you are a funny person, how about showing this humor in your photos? Or use a picture of you with friends laughing it up.
Never use photos that you look unhappy in. No one wants to be around unhappy people.
Now go find the woman of your dreams,