My readers often email me to complain about how the girls they like are always “too busy” to hang out with them.
I usually feel like laughing whenever I hear this.
The first thing that a guy should ask when asking out a “busy girl” is…
“Is she really busy?”
Listen. Women like to give excuses to guys whom they don’t “really” like, and one of their favorite excuses is,
“Sorry, I am kinda busy this week.”
Heck…I am a man and I use this excuse ALL THE TIME to turn women down on adultfrinendfinder.com login.
It’s innocent and you can turn away a person without hurting his or her feelings.
Here’s the truth: If a woman is REALLY attracted to you, she WILL find SOME time to hang out with you no matter how busy she is – even if it is just one hour a week.
The only reason she won’t is because she doesn’t like you “enough”.
Let’s use YOU as an example…
If you were absolutely CRAZY about a gal, do you think you could spare an hour of your busy schedule this week to have a cup of coffee with her?
I bet the answer is “yes”.
The same principle applies to women. If she likes you “enough”, she will make SOME time for you – it’s as simple as that.