Lot of guys ask me ‘how do I make a women laugh? What should I say to make them laugh?’ well the question isn’t so much as what you say but rather how you say it. The ability to make women laugh is a powerful tool to possess in your pick-up routine. It helps convey the fun, playful and humorous side of your personality during both attraction and the comfort phase of pick-up. Various psychological studies have shown that during an initial contact, it’s psychologically impossible for anybody to dislike someone who has made them laugh. Studies have shown that laughter promotes good health and reduces levels of stress hormones. Its basic human nature to avoid pain and gain pleasure, that is one of the reasons why we hear lot of women say they want to meet someone who can make them laugh.
The trick to being funny is to forget about trying to be funny, and rather just be playful. This demonstrates a playful side to your character and helps develop the attraction, it makes them feel at ease and comfortable around you.
I will give you an example of being funny and playful that I have used in my pick-up. I met this girl in Starbucks last Saturday; I approached her, asked her about this particular book that she was reading and she was very friendly and was responsive. So, just as I was about to finish my coffee I said to her ‘‘well, it was really nice talking to you…I gotta meet a friend of mine…is there a way we could stay in touch?’’
Her: ‘’I can have your number’’
Me: ‘’ OMG…you ARE forward, aren’t you (smirk on face)’’
Her: ‘’Lol…no way (light slap on my arm)’’
After I take her number, I simply make a remark ‘’alright…now I will be calling you 20 times a day and sending texts every 5 minutes’’
This is an example of using playful banter to make women laugh, women enjoy that and on a subconscious level they will remember this meeting and see you as fun-loving person.
You are probably now thinking that ‘’Alright, it’s great to know how you made that girl laugh but how can I do it myself ’’ So I will give you PUA’s some simple steps that I follow which you can incorporate into your game to pick-up women and make women laugh.
When women ask you a serious question, instead of answering the question immediately and falling into their hoop, pause as if you are seriously thinking this through to create suspense, and then come up with a smart-ass answer with a poker face. For example, she asks you how long it’s been since you were on a date, pause, looking serious, and say ‘’does my mum count?’’
Remember one of the keys to attracting her with humour is to never back down. If she opens her mouth and gives you the “I can’t believe you just said that” look, most guys will cave in and say, “Oh, I was just kidding.” DON’T DO THAT! It makes you look like a Wussy. Instead just turn it up a notch. Your goal isn’t to upset her in anyway, but to get under her skin enough by playful teasing and busting on her, so to ignite the attraction mechanism inside her.
Misinterpret her words in a sexual way. There are loads of common phrases that you can turn around on her to imply that she already wants you, and is trying to pick YOU up, and isn’t being subtle or classy about it. Let’s say at some point during the conversation she says , “Hmmm…you know, I think it might be time to go home,” you can playfully turn this around on her by looking at your watch and saying, “I’ve only been talking to you for 15 minutes; I’m not going home with you!!” Or if she says, “It’s late… time for bed,” you can say, “I don’t think we’ve known each other long enough for that!” Misinterpreting her words in a sexual way helps taking pressure off the pick-up and it becomes playful and quite fun. You can use these tactics also on adultfrinendfinder.
Another thing you can do to make a women laugh is to mimic her. Mimic something she’s doing in a funny way. For instance, if she has a really rigid posture, pull your shoulders back, sit up extra straight, and say, “I really think you should work on your posture.” This usually gets a confused laugh as it sends a mixed message. People only do things like this if they’re feeling comfortable… so this sends the message that you’re in a fun, comfortable mood. Women find this attitude VERY attractive.
And last but not least, remember that knowing how to make women laugh is one of most powerful things you can do to take your success with women to the next level. So, fine-tune your funny bones by watching stand-up comedians making the masses laugh but follow their body language and the way they deliver the punch-line.
Try to keep in mind that its not just what you say that makes women laugh but the way you say it.